A number of posts ago, I wrote about my decision to give intention to attracting that special person into my life. I spoke about noticing the things that I find attractive in the men I casually meet and giving thanks for bringing that quality into my scope of awareness; about adding “relationship” images that talk to me (and the Universe) to my vision board; I talked about being specific in identifying the qualities that are important to me in a partner, and about boosting my own self-confidence in this arena.
Well, I promised an update and here we go…
I’ve continued to stay fairly committed to the process. I say fairly because I know there’s more I could do, like actually go places where I may meet menJ - but, truthfully, I don’t know where those places are! I’ve spoken more freely to friends (and acquaintances) about this goal and I’ve taken action by – ok, don’t laugh – joining an on-line dating website!
It’s been a fun process with some movement forward. I’ve met a man at one of the coffeehouses I frequent. We simply chat from time-to-time, but it’s a fun, casual and flirty relationship. I did go out on a date with a wonderful man and hopefully we’ve begun a lasting friendship, but our overall values and goals weren’t compatible for a dating relationship. Both sets of values and goals are admirable mind you, just different directions. I do believe that this friendship will bring value to both of our lives, so that’s cool.
Most interestingly, and probably most significant, is that I’m running into and speaking to a larger number of men….ahhhh, The Law of Attraction at work! I think there’s something about this fact that tells me I’m moving in the right direction.
But I’ve also come to another awareness: I am so busy building my business that I think a dating relationship would be a distraction. So, as you see, I have a decision to make: either I shed that limiting belief and embrace that a relationship would increase my creativity and motivation to build my business, or I need to accept this belief as fact and just continue to have fun with this flirty little period of my life and believe that ….when the time is right…. Hummmmmm.
How about you? Any suggestions, comments, or insights? What is important to you and have you really applied LOA techniques to create change?
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